Thursday, October 20, 2011

Sixteen months old!

Trey is sixteen months old today!  I can't believe how fast time has gone and how much he has grown.  Being around Julie's baby who is only two weeks old reminds me of how tiny Trey used to be.

The camera is pretty wobbly (or maybe it's Trey), but here is Trey walking while holding on to just one hand.  He's making progress!  And I'm starting to wonder if his slow motor development is just his first attempt to torture his mother (being a neurotic special ed teacher who is hypersensitive about developmental milestones and all).

I'm sorry to say that I don't have many interesting things to report from the past two weeks.  I thought maybe I'd share what a normal day looks like for us as working parents.  Thrilling, I know:
5:00am - Elliptical time and bonding with my Friends: Rachel, Ross, Monica, Chandler, Phoebe and Joey.  I might start talking about them like I know them which is reminiscent of my maternity leave.

Around 5:30am - Trey wakes and Randy gets him up having some quiet morning time together

5:30-7:20am - Morning routines of getting ready for work and playing with Trey in the living room which includes an assortment of books, blocks, trucks, and puzzles.  I get the headlines of the day from Matt and Ann, and then I take Trey to daycare.

7:30-4:30 - Work time.  I am so lucky that I enjoy going to work.  Combining that with Trey loving his daycare makes working full time a lot easier than I anticipated.  For those of you who don't know what I do, I work at an Evaluation Center doing comprehensive evaluations for special education.  I work with a variety of clinical and school psychologists, speech and language pathologists, and other evaluation specialists.  We go into the schools and kids also come to our office.  I really like the variety of schools and students who I work with, but I miss the relationships and community of one building.

4:30-6:30 - Play time, dinner time, bath time, story time, bed time.  It's so precious and it goes so fast.  Sometimes Trey is pretty tired and cranky, but his post-daycare meltdowns seem to have ceased and I think he has adjusted to his new schedule.  Now he's generally in a pretty good mood and we treasure our evenings together.

6:30-a really early bedtime - I have been enjoying meal planning and cooking dinner.  A few weeks ago I bought an issue of Everyday Food and have made four of the recipes so far.  I'm a fan! After dinner it's usually computer time, tv time, reading time, and my favorite...bed time.

The weeks go fast and the weekends are better than ever before because it means All Trey All Day.

Here are some pictures from the past two weeks:
 Playing at Woodlawn Park on the new play structure
The old structure was destroyed by arson.  Yep, we live in the 'hood.

 At the Oaks Park Hops Fest
It was a perfect fall day in Portland, and it was nice to be outside.


 If he can't walk on his feet, maybe he can walk on his hands.


 Intent on finding the perfect piece of dirt

Trey having fun with sticks

 Trey seeing his cousin, Grady, for the first time

Grandpa Gerts and Grady 

Dad and Sandy with their two grandsons

 Tim and Randy (Feifers family members by marriage) with their sons

This may be the only baby Randy has ever held besides Trey.  
Amazingly, Grady didn't cry.  
Randy has definitely improved his baby handling skills. 

I know it's gross, but Trey really likes playing with our bottles in the recycling bins.
Hey, at least we know he has a career as a bottle sorter when he gets older. 

On Wednesday I spent the afternoon with Julie and Grady.  
The sweet boy slept in my arms for almost two hours.  
Talk about baby heaven.   

While I was holding him I decided that it is much more relaxing
when the baby isn't your own.
Although, the difference could be that this time around I am rested...

Here's a confession.  Hopefully, you got bored by my daily schedule above so you didn't get this far.  I love bargain shopping.  Working parttime last year made me very price conscious when grocery shopping.  I even have a very dorky spreadsheet of items we buy and what the prices are in the different stores where I shop (Winco, Fred Meyer, Safeway, New Seasons, Target and Costco).  I love getting deals.  And I don't mean "bulk buying at Costco" deals, but more like sales and coupons.  Sometimes I wonder if I'm a borderline hoarder, but I think I prefer the "extreme couponing" title instead.  And, to my defense, I only hoard...I mean bargain shop...for things that we actually use.  Here is my recent acquisition.

Friday, October 7, 2011

Baby Grady Has Arrived!

Julie and Tim had their baby!!!!!!  Grady Joseph McGuire was born on Tuesday, October 4, 2011 at 7:58am.  He weighed in at 7 pounds 10 ounces and was 20 inches long.  He has some blonde/light brown hair and dark blue grey eyes.  Mama and Grady are both doing great!

Julie went into labor on Sunday night.  I got a text from her at 4:30am on Monday and a voice mail at 5:15am.  I knew I had missed something!  Crap!  But when I talked to her at 5:30am, I found that she was still at home but had been in labor all night.  She and Tim went to the hospital that morning, and she was checked in after her water broke.  Julie had a very long day on Monday...Baby Grady wasn't quite ready to come out yet.  Luckily, after some rest and relief Monday night, Julie was able to successfully deliver a healthy baby boy with no complications!  My dad, Julie's BFF Deena, and Deena's mom Judy and I were in the waiting room starting at 6:30am on Tuesday.  We got the word that he had arrived around 8:20am.  I thought that was a long two hours, but it was nothing like the next two hours where we had to wait before we could see them.  We were so excited when Tim sent me a text that we could come back.  We could not wait to meet the newest Feifers family member.

Judy and Deena in the waiting room 

Dad and I waiting, waiting, waiting... 

Grandpa Gerts holding Grady when he was just two hours old 

I can't wait for Grady and Trey to be best friends!!!!

"Grandma" Judy and Julie looking at the perfect baby 

One day old

I can't wait to spoil this boy rotten.

Proud Papa

Julie, Tim, and Grady 

Wednesday night with Grandpa gazing at the baby 

Open eyes!

Trey has just finished his second full week at daycare with no absences! Yay!
A picture M sent me on Wednesday of Trey playing

M, his daycare provider, is giving me a daily sheet to tell me about his day, food, diapers, and naps.  I really love these sheets because it gives me an idea of how Trey's days go.  Here is the one from today.  Can you see why Trey and I both love his daycare?

"Today was a delightful day despite the misty greyness...the weather actually added a cozy feel to our time indoors and a refreshing accent to the fall environment outside. After a gentle morning of free play and stories we ventured off to the play gym and then continued on to the park to pick J up from school and to play outside.  We then returned home for a warm lunch and naptime.  After nap, Trey was in a quiet play mode and enjoyed playing kitchen with "skipit" (his soft blanket).  Overall, Trey was in a lovely mood and really had a good day."

Randy, Trey and I have had some fun over the past two weeks.
Trey riding his scooter outside on the sidewalk 

Breakfast at Muddy's last weekend (I think - maybe the weekend before)
I was looking forward to hearing about Dyer's wedding, 
but they were so busy she barely got to talk to us. 

 Hood River Hops Fest

High fives with Dad

This was tonight.  Trey decided he wanted to "help" me with dinner.  He has become way too interested in the items in the drawers and cabinets.  I usually let him go to town until he gets to the glassware.

It's been a long week with the baby's arrival, my dad staying with us for three nights, and Randy and I both fighting off a cold.  I can't wait to get to bed tonight and read my book, Cutting For Stone.  First comes our fancy dinner - grilled cheese and tomato soup.  It's almost 8 o'clock...Mama better get cookin'.